Right Love at the Wrong Time? No Such Thing!

Do you believe in the right love in the wrong time? Do you believe in the right person at the wrong time? Well, here’s the deal - hate to break it to you, who thinks that you are dealing with the right person at the wrong time at the moment - there is no such thing.

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Yes, you hear it every time. Your potential boyfriend or girlfriend tells you why it is not working out - right person, just the wrong time. It seems like perfect time is something that everyone can’t seem to get quite right with relationships.

ü You meet someone that you think is the man of your dreams but then he or she needs to go to leave either to study or work abroad. Right person. Just the wrong time.

ü You meet someone and form a close friendship with him or her only to find out the he or she is already taken. Right person. Just the wrong time.

ü You are already in a relationship but one partner is not ready to get serious or settle down. Right person. Just the wrong time.

ü You are in a relationship but one partner is getting serious too soon. Right person. Just the wrong time.

ü You feel a strong connection with someone but you are not of age yet. Right person. Just the wrong time.

You begin to wonder, “If only I’d met him or her in the past or in the future, things would be different and we will have a chance at the greatest thing called love.” That’s all make-believe. That’s just something that you tell yourself to console the sadness and melancholy you feel because you believe you failed at your chance of having a happily ever after. You’re just lying to yourself.

There is really no such things as right person or right love at the wrong time. If you meet someone that you feel is the right person and gives you the right love, but for some reasons, something out of control is blocking your way - it only means that he or she isn’t the right person. Even though your soul feels that it is exactly the right love or right time, it doesn’t mean that this person is the one that you would spend the rest of your lifetime with. Despite the affection and intensity of attraction that you feel for him or her, it doesn’t mean that this person is truly “the one” especially if there are uncontrollable things that seem to stand in your quest to make the relationship work.

The simple truth is that: “If you are meant to be together with someone, then timing shouldn’t be an issue - the people that you meet at the wrong time are just really the wrong people.” That’s it!

For those people who claim to have experienced true love at the wrong time. It is not true love. It may be a bitter pill to swallow, but the reality of love is that if it really is the right person, which means there is no such things as wrong timing. Come to think of this: you will never meet the right person at the wrong time. The right person or the right love shouldn’t make you think twice about going deep in a relationship. You just know.

When you found the right person or true love, you don’t have to worry about your priorities because he or she will never get in the way of your dreams and make you choose him or her over them. If you found the right person, you don’t have to worry about fitting them into your super busy schedule because the right person becomes a part of your schedule. With the right person, you can work out every single area in your life.

In search of the one, you have to remember that every relationship has its ups and downs. There is also no such things as a perfect relationship. We don’t live in a fairy tale. To make a relationship work, you have to make it work. Stay connected. Build intimacy even after 10 children. Don’t go to sleep mad at each other. While small misunderstandings can’t be avoided, you can make it a point to always talk it out before the day ends.